When My Heart Was Ready, but My Body Was Still Catching Up

Sometimes we finally reach the place we have prayed to see, only to discover that arriving and being fully present are not the same thing.

Of all the places on our pilgrimage itinerary, Assisi may have been the one I anticipated most.

I have long felt a special devotion to St. Francis of Assisi. His simplicity, tenderness toward creation, concern for the poor, and willingness to surrender the life expected of him for the life God called him to live have always moved me.

Francis also reminds me of my grandfather, Papa T’fra.

Papa loved animals and carried the same kind of gentle appreciation for life that I associate with St. Francis. Over time, the two became connected in my heart. Going to Assisi felt as though it should have been one of the clearest, most meaningful, and most emotional days of the pilgrimage.

Instead, it is the day I remember least.

That truth still makes me sad.

After the canceled flights, the unexpected night in Dallas, the international crossing, the time change, and the long bus ride from Rome, my body was still trying to catch up with my spirit.

I had traveled across an ocean to walk where Francis lived, prayed, struggled, and began a religious movement that would influence the world.

But I was exhausted.

When I look through my photographs, I can see where I stood. I see the churches, stone walls, artwork, and people who surrounded me. Yet many of the memories feel as though I am looking at them through fog.

For a while, I felt disappointed in myself.

Then I began to wonder whether this too was part of the pilgrimage.

Perhaps Assisi’s first lesson for me was humility: accepting that I could not force myself to experience a holy place perfectly simply because I had wanted it so badly.

Something Great Built Around Something Small

Our journey into the world of St. Francis began at the Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels, which stands on the plain below the hill town of Assisi.

The basilica is enormous, but the spiritual heart of it is remarkably small: the Porziuncola.

The name means “little portion.”

This tiny chapel is closely connected to the beginnings of Franciscan life. Francis and his early companions gathered and prayed there, and the site became the heart of the community that eventually grew into the Order of Friars Minor. The grand basilica was later constructed around the chapel to preserve it.

Even through my exhaustion, that contrast stayed with me.

A vast basilica built around a tiny chapel.

Grandeur sheltering simplicity.

The world created something monumental around a man who had chosen humility, poverty, and very little for himself.

Photography was not permitted inside, so I do not have an image to awaken the memory. What remains is an impression of the little chapel standing quietly within all that magnificence, holding the story of a beginning.

I thought about Francis praying there; not Francis as a statue, icon, or beloved saint surrounded by animals and birds, but Francis the man.

A person trying to understand what God wanted from him.

A person who did not begin with a fully formed mission or any idea of what his choices would eventually create.

He began with a small place, a restless heart, and a willingness to keep listening.

Perhaps that is what makes the Porziuncola so powerful. It reminds us that purpose does not always announce itself through something large.

Sometimes it begins with the small portion we have been given and our willingness to care for it faithfully.

The Rose Garden and the Quiet Places

Near the Porziuncola are places associated with Francis’s private prayer and spiritual struggles, including the rose garden and the Chapel of the Roses.

Tradition connects the garden with Francis’s struggle against temptation. The roses are known for growing without thorns, while the nearby chapel preserves the intimacy and prayerfulness associated with his life.

I remember this area more clearly.

The Chapel of the Roses was peaceful and simply beautiful.

Some spaces impress us because of their size and decoration. Others settle something inside us because they ask nothing from us. They do not demand to be interpreted, photographed, or fully understood. They simply invite us to become quiet.

That is how I remember the chapel.

Even in my fatigue, some part of me recognized the peace there.

Perhaps that was the grace of it. I did not need to produce a profound spiritual reaction. I did not need to remember every detail. I only needed to stand within the quiet for a little while.

Francis was not shaped only by grand moments. His life was formed in small chapels, lonely places, uncomfortable questions, and repeated acts of surrender.

That feels much closer to how most of us actually grow.

Faith Written Across the Walls

The Basilica of St. Francis is built on two principal levels, with the saint’s tomb located below in the crypt. Construction began shortly after his death, and the basilica became both his burial place and one of the great spiritual and artistic monuments of medieval Christianity.

Its upper and lower churches contain extensive frescoes depicting the story of Francis’s life and faith.

I wish I could say that every image remains vivid in my memory.

It does not.

I know we saw possessions connected to Francis. I know the frescoes surrounded us with the story of his life. I know we celebrated Mass inside the basilica.

But when I reach for those memories, they return only in fragments:

Stone. Color. Movement. The awareness that I was walking through a place built to preserve the witness of a man I had admired for years.

I have had to accept that the photographs remember more than I do.

Still, perhaps the meaning was working beneath the surface, beyond what I could consciously retain.

Francis’s spirituality was never about collecting or possessing experiences. It was about surrendering the need to possess anything at all.

Maybe I do not need to remember every detail of Assisi perfectly for Assisi to have left something within me.

St. Clare and the Company We Keep

We also visited the Basilica of St. Clare (Basilica di Santa Chiara), where the remains of Clare of Assisi are preserved and also the home of the original San Damiano Cross, which St. Francis was praying in front of when he received the direction from God telling him to “go and repair My house.”

Clare was not simply someone who admired Francis from a distance. She was his friend, spiritual companion, and a founder in her own right. Inspired by the Gospel life Francis embraced, she established the community that became known as the Poor Clares and fought to preserve their commitment to radical poverty.

Thinking about the friendship between Francis and Clare touched me.

We often imagine saints as isolated figures, each standing alone in a beam of holy light. Yet many holy lives were shaped through relationships.

Francis had Clare.

Later in the pilgrimage, I would stand near the tombs of St. Benedict and St. Scholastica, a brother and sister whose spiritual friendship shaped both their lives.

Again and again, I noticed the same pattern.

Saints knew other saints.

They prayed together, challenged one another, offered encouragement, and helped each other remain faithful.

It reinforced something I have heard throughout my life: we are influenced by the company we keep.

“You are what you associate with” can sound like a warning. In Assisi, it began to feel more like an invitation.

Choose people who call you toward your better self.

Choose people whose faith strengthens yours.

Choose companions who can recognize who God is asking you to become, even before you completely understand it yourself.

Francis and Clare did not lose their individuality through their friendship. They helped each other become more fully who they were called to be.

SN: In visiting her resting place, I remember seeing her mortal remains and feeling a sense of peace in the space. I was a little surprised, and honestly a little disappointed in myself, that my first thought was how strange it felt not to be unsettled while standing in the same room as the earthly remains of Saint Clare. Perhaps I had expected something darker or more uncomfortable. Instead, the room felt peaceful, sacred, and far more intimate than I was prepared for. A beautiful and unexpected experience.

The Young Face That Broke Through the Fog

The moment I remember most clearly from Assisi did not involve a medieval fresco, ancient relic, or grand basilica.

It involved the face of a boy.

At the Sanctuary of the Renunciation rests the body of St. Carlo Acutis, who had asked to be buried in Assisi because of his devotion to St. Francis.

Carlo died from leukemia in 2006 at only fifteen years old. He became known throughout the Catholic world for combining the ordinary life of a modern teenager with a deep devotion to the Eucharist. He also used technology to document Eucharistic miracles.

When I saw him, he looked like a young boy sleeping.

That is what reached me.

Not the formal language of sainthood. Not the unusual experience of standing before the body of someone recognized by the Church.

It was his hair.

Beautiful, thick hair.

It reminded me immediately of Drew.

Suddenly, Carlo was no longer simply an inspiring young Catholic whose story I had heard.

He was somebody’s child.

Somebody’s brother.

A boy who had laughed, eaten dinner with his family, used a computer, worried the people who loved him, and left an unbearable emptiness behind when he died.

Looking at him, I thought about how deeply I love Drew. Then I thought about the pain Carlo’s parents, siblings, relatives, and friends must have experienced.

We often tell the stories of saints through the meaning their lives hold for the Church. We speak of miracles, devotion, sacrifice, holiness, and witness.

But somebody still had to lose them.

Somebody had to leave the hospital without that child.

Somebody had to walk past his room afterward.

Somebody had to decide, again and again, to share his story with strangers.

Standing there, I wondered what it costs a family to give a child’s memory to the world.

What does it feel like to know that thousands of people pray beside your son’s tomb? What does it mean to hear strangers call him a saint while you still remember the sound of his voice at home?

There must be pride and gratitude.

There must also be grief.

Those things are not enemies.

A person can believe deeply in eternal life and still ache for the physical presence of someone they love. A family can understand that their child belongs to God and still long to hold him again.

That moment taught me something I had not expected to learn in Assisi:

Sainthood does not erase humanity.

It reveals just how sacred an ordinary human life can become.

The Devotion Required to Share Someone You Love

The longer I stood with those feelings, the more I thought about Carlo’s family.

There must be extraordinary devotion involved in sharing someone you love with the world after death—to allow strangers to look upon the face that once belonged to your private family life and hear them describe what your son, brother, or friend means to their faith.

His story now travels far beyond the home that first held him.

I do not know exactly what Carlo’s family feels, and I would never presume to speak for them.

But as an aunt looking at a boy whose hair reminded me of Drew, I felt the smallest shadow of what such a loss might mean.

That is the memory that survived my exhaustion.

Love made it through the fog.

When the Memory Is Not What You Hoped

I still wish I remembered more of Assisi.

I wish the basilicas were vivid. I wish I could reconstruct the Mass, frescoes, streets, and prayers with complete clarity.

Part of me still feels guilty that the place I had anticipated so deeply became the least distinct part of the pilgrimage.

But perhaps faith is not measured by the sharpness of our memories.

I was there—tired, imperfect, and trying to receive whatever I could.

I stood in places where Francis prayed. I entered the little chapel at the heart of the Franciscan movement. I felt the peace surrounding Clare. I saw a modern saint who looked enough like a child I love to break my heart open.

Maybe I did not fail to experience Assisi.

Maybe Assisi reached me through the one doorway I was still awake enough to open.

🇮🇹 Creole Chaos Count

😴 Hours of sleep still needed: Far more than the itinerary allowed
📸 Photographs now carrying many of the memories: Most of them
⛪ Sacred places visited: More than my tired mind could absorb
🌹 Quiet chapels that reached me anyway: At least one
🤍 Saints who reminded me of family: Francis, Clare, and especially Carlo
😭 Unexpected emotional moments: One young face was enough
🙏 Grace received: Through what I remembered—and what I had to release

🌿 What I’ll Carry Home

Assisi taught me that sacred experiences do not always reach us in the way we expect.

Sometimes we prepare our hearts, cross an ocean, and arrive too exhausted to take everything in. We may forget important details, miss the perfect photograph, or fail to feel the emotion we imagined we would feel.

That does not mean the journey was wasted.

Grace does not depend upon our perfect attention.

Sometimes it finds one image, one quiet room, or one human connection and uses that small opening to reach us.

For me, it was the sight of Carlo’s hair and the sudden thought of Drew.

Through that one tender connection, Assisi reminded me that holiness is not separate from love. It grows from love—love for God, love for family, love for our companions, and the courage to allow that love to extend beyond ourselves.

❤️ From Me to You

Perhaps you have had an experience you were certain would change you, only to leave wondering whether you were too tired, distracted, or overwhelmed to receive it properly.

Be gentle with yourself.

Not every sacred moment arrives with perfect clarity. Some experiences settle quietly beneath the surface and reveal their meaning later.

Sometimes the photograph remembers for us.

Sometimes the heart does.

And sometimes, long after the moment has passed, we realize grace was present even when we were too tired to recognize it.

🌿 Keep Exploring

One of the gifts of pilgrimage is discovering how much more there is to learn after we come home. I have shared Assisi here as I experienced it: imperfectly, emotionally, and through the haze of exhaustion. But the places and people woven through this day hold stories far larger than the pieces I was able to carry with me.

If something in this chapter stirred your curiosity, I hope you will follow it.

Learn more about the Porziuncola and the beginnings of the Franciscan movement. Explore the history and art of the Basilica of St. Francis. Spend some time getting to know St. Clare, the San Damiano Cross, and the friendship that helped shape both Clare and Francis. And if the young face of St. Carlo Acutis touched you the way it touched me, learn more about the ordinary teenager whose extraordinary faith continues to reach people around the world.

Perhaps that is another kind of pilgrimage: allowing one story to lead us toward another, one question toward deeper understanding, and one moment of curiosity toward a faith and history we did not know before.

Continue exploring:

• The Porziuncola and Basilica of St. Mary of the Angels
• Assisi, the Basilica of St. Francis and Other Franciscan Sites — UNESCO World Heritage
• St. Carlo Acutis — Official Website
• Sanctuary of the Renunciation and the Tomb of St. Carlo Acutis
• Canonization of St. Carlo Acutis — Vatican
• Pope Leo XIV’s Homily at the Canonization of Carlo Acutis and Pier Giorgio Frassati

Sometimes the journey does not end when we leave a place.

Sometimes that is simply where the learning begins.

✈️ Coming Next

Creole Chaos & Grace — Part Four:
Wandering Assisi

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—and the Back Row We Claimed for the Rest of Italy

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Sometimes grace looks like a profound spiritual revelation. Sometimes it looks like noise-canceling headphones, an eye mask, and six empty seats at the back of a tour bus.

After the canceled flights, unexpected overnight stay in Dallas, and frantic effort required simply to keep the trip alive, our rescheduled departure day finally arrived.

We were tired before we ever boarded the plane.

Not regular tired.

This was the kind of tired that makes you stop caring whether your clothes are wrinkled, whether your hair looks right, or whether the stranger beside you believes you are friendly.

We had spent so much energy trying to reach the flight that, when we finally settled into our seats, Italy still felt less like a destination and more like a test of endurance.

But we were on the plane.

At that point, that was enough.

A Seat That Would Not Recline; and a Woman Who Was Not Happy

My seat was terrible.

It did not recline, which already felt like an insult on an international flight. Then the woman seated beside me arrived in what I can only describe as a fully committed bad mood.

She complained. She was short with people. She seemed irritated with the seat, the plane, the delays, the situation, and perhaps humanity in general.

Normally, I try to be pleasant. I believe in kindness, understanding, and extending grace.

I also had noise-canceling headphones and an eye mask, and I had absolutely no intention of talking to her.

My plan was simple: put on the headphones, lower the mask, and mentally disappear until we reached Rome.

Somehow, though, we began talking.

I do not remember exactly how the conversation started. Perhaps one of us mentioned the delays. Perhaps exhaustion broke down the usual barriers between strangers. Whatever happened, her mood gradually softened.

By the end of our conversation, she apologized for how she had behaved.

Look at God.

I boarded the plane determined to block her out completely, and instead, somewhere over the Atlantic, we found a small moment of understanding.

It did not fix my seat. That thing still did not recline.

But it reminded me that sometimes people are not offering their best because they do not have much of their best available in that moment.

After everything that had happened since New Orleans, I understood that better than I might have on another day. My own reserves of patience and grace were not exactly overflowing either.

Crossing the Atlantic While Barely Conscious

People sometimes describe international flights as romantic crossings into another world.

Perhaps that happens in first class.

From my seat, the experience mainly involved attempting to sleep upright, adjusting my eye mask, shifting positions without elbowing anyone, and occasionally checking the flight map to see whether Europe had moved any closer.

The cabin lights dimmed, and the engines settled into their constant hum. Some passengers watched movies. Others whispered, slept, or tried to convince their bodies that the strange meal being served was appropriate for whatever time it was supposed to be.

Somewhere over the Atlantic, the days blurred together.

We had already lost part of our itinerary. Now we were losing hours to the time difference too. My watch said one thing. My body said another. My spirit simply said, “Please let us get there.”

Eventually, we did.

We landed in Rome exhausted, relieved, and only partially aware of our surroundings.

There was no dramatic arrival. No elegant moment of stopping to absorb the fact that we had finally reached Italy.

There was luggage to collect, a tour group to locate, and another four-hour journey waiting for us.

Meeting the Group (Well, Sort Of)

Mama, Mr. John, Aunt Lynn, and Uncle Dan had already met some of our fellow pilgrims at the gate in Dallas.

I had not.

While they had been introducing themselves and socializing, I had been in the airport lounge recovering from what I considered the emotional violence of American Airlines.

By the time we reached Rome, I was technically surrounded by the people with whom I would spend the next several days, but I was not yet prepared to be charming, curious, or particularly social.

Normally, I would want to know who everyone was, where they came from, and what had inspired them to take the pilgrimage.

That day, I mostly wanted to know where the bus was and whether anyone expected me to remain awake once I got on it.

The Great Back-Row Occupation

Our charter bus was nice. The seats were spacious, comfortable, and far more inviting than the airplane seat that had held me hostage across the Atlantic.

The tour guide explained that we would rotate seats during the pilgrimage so everyone could experience different views and locations on the bus.

That sounded fair and reasonable.

We did not do it.

Mama, Mr. John, and I found the final row at the back of the bus. It stretched across six seats, meaning each of us could have two seats to ourselves.

It was perfect.

There was room to stretch, sleep, and keep a bag beside you without someone having to climb over it.

Mama settled in and silently staked her claim. Somehow, without any formal announcement, the issue was closed for the remainder of the pilgrimage.

Nobody attempted to take our row.

Not once.

I cannot prove it, but I believe Mama’s face communicated everything anyone needed to know. She has a way of looking settled that strongly suggests negotiation would be unwise.

The guide may have wanted us to rotate.

The back row had other plans.

For the rest of the trip, it became our territory, our own little mobile Louisiana outpost traveling through Italy.

Four Hours to Assisi. Or So I Am Told

The drive from Rome to Assisi took approximately four hours. I think.

I would love to describe the Italian landscape in rich detail: rolling hills, olive groves, medieval towns in the distance, and cypress trees lining the roads.

I am sure it was beautiful.

I slept through most of it.

After everything it had taken to get there, my body made an executive decision. Italy could wait. I needed a nap.

There may have been introductions and wonderful conversations happening around me. There may have been breathtaking scenery passing outside the window.

I remember very little.

What I remember is waking occasionally, confirming that my family and backpack were still present, and going directly back to sleep.

It was not the graceful beginning to our Italian pilgrimage that I had imagined.

But it was honest.

Sometimes the first thing you do after crossing an ocean to reach a place you have prayed to see is sleep through the ride there.

Assisi Without the Grand Entrance

By the time we arrived in Assisi, I was beyond tired.

The group planned to gather for dinner, but I had reached my limit. I went to my room, showered, and climbed straight into bed.

There was no socializing, no welcome meal, and no meaningful attempt to introduce myself to the cast of characters with whom I would soon share churches, prayers, meals, bus rides, laughter, frustrations, and more than a few moments of confusion.

I slept.

And that was exactly what I needed.

Pilgrimages are often described as journeys of sacrifice, discipline, and spiritual openness. But the body is part of the pilgrimage too. Sometimes honoring the journey means admitting that you are depleted and allowing yourself to stop.

The saints of Assisi had waited centuries for me.

They could wait until morning.

The Pilgrimage Between the Big Moments

Looking back, I am glad the journey did not begin with a perfectly framed view of Italy or an elegant first dinner with the group.

It began with a woman having a bad day beside me on an airplane.

It began with a seat that refused to recline, a conversation neither of us planned, and my family quietly taking possession of the back row of a bus.

It began with me sleeping through scenery I had crossed an ocean to see and choosing to miss dinner because my body needed rest.

None of those moments sounds especially holy.

But pilgrimage is not found only inside shrines, basilicas, and sacred tombs. It is also found in the ordinary work of making room for another person’s humanity, laughing at what cannot be controlled, accepting our limitations, and trusting that missing one moment does not mean we have missed the journey.

Grace had brought us to Italy.

Now it was asking us to slow down enough to receive what came next.

Creole Chaos Count

✈️ International flights completed: Finally, one
💺 Seats that reclined: Not mine
🎧 Noise-canceling headphones: Essential equipment
😒 Difficult seatmates softened through conversation: One
🚌 Bus rows claimed for the entire pilgrimage: One glorious six-seat row
😴 Italian countryside actually observed: Very little
🍽️ Group dinners skipped in favor of sleep: One
🙏 Grace received: Through conversation, rest, and the wisdom not to challenge Mama for the back row

🌿 What I’ll Carry Home

I often think meaningful journeys should begin with energy, enthusiasm, and complete presence.

This one began with exhaustion.

Exhaustion has a way of stripping away performance. I did not have the energy to pretend I was fine, force myself to socialize, or experience every scheduled moment simply because it appeared on the itinerary.

I had to accept the journey as it was, rather than as I believed it should be.

That first day taught me that being present does not always mean doing more. Sometimes it means allowing yourself to rest so you can be fully awake when what truly matters arrives.

And sometimes the first grace you receive in a foreign country is simply a shower, a bed, and the promise that Assisi will still be there in the morning.

🌍 Want to Follow the Road We Barely Saw?

If our very sleepy arrival in Italy has you wondering what we missed while claiming the back row and napping our way toward Assisi, there are much more alert people who can help. You can start with Rome Fiumicino Airport to see where our Italian adventure officially began, then explore Umbria Tourism for the rolling hills, medieval towns, and countryside I sincerely wish I could describe from memory. When you are ready to make your way to Assisi, the official Visit Assisi site is a great place to explore the city, plan a visit, and learn more about its sacred and historic sites. And for a deeper look at why Assisi holds such an important place in world history, art, and Franciscan tradition, visit UNESCO’s Assisi World Heritage page. Consider this your chance to experience the scenery I apparently crossed an ocean to sleep through.

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Creole Chaos & Grace — Part Three:
Assisi

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The Pilgrimage Began Before We Ever Left the Ground

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Sometimes the first miracle of a pilgrimage is not reaching the holy place. It is simply making it onto the airplane.

People keep asking me how Italy was, and every time they do, I smile—not because I do not know what to say, but because I honestly do not know where to begin.

Do I begin with standing only a few rows away from Pope Leo XIV? With touching the tomb of St. Benedict, praying in the cave of St. Michael, or walking through the beautiful streets of Assisi?

Or do I begin at Louis Armstrong New Orleans International Airport, staring at a departure board and wondering whether I was going to make it to Italy at all?

Every pilgrimage has a beginning. Ours began with canceled flights, missed connections, rising panic, unexpected expenses, family patience being tested almost immediately, and a whole lot of grace.

Welcome to Creole Chaos & Grace.

Five Pilgrims, Three Starting Points, One Destination

Our little pilgrimage crew was coming together in a way only God could have organized.

Mama and Mr. John packed up the car in Cloutierville and drove west toward Dallas. Aunt Lynn and Uncle Dan were scheduled to fly from Shreveport. I was flying from New Orleans.

The plan seemed simple: meet in Dallas, connect with our tour group, and fly together to Rome.

Easy enough.

Except God, or perhaps American Airlines, had apparently prepared a different itinerary.

The Flight I Did Not Know I Had Missed

I arrived at the New Orleans airport with plenty of time to spare. I was already mentally in vacation mode: perhaps a cup of coffee, a little people-watching, and then Italy.

Instead, I looked at the departure board and saw the word every traveler dreads:

CANCELED.

Not delayed. Not boarding late. Canceled.

Apparently, American Airlines had “helpfully” rebooked me onto an earlier flight. There was only one small problem: nobody told me.

So, naturally, I missed the flight I did not even know I was supposed to be on.

I went to the counter assuming there had to be some reasonable way to fix the situation. The agent was kind, but kindness did not change the fact that there were no other American Airlines flights that could get me to Dallas in time for our international departure.

I called customer service. The representative searched for alternatives and then offered the most memorable suggestion of the day:

“Well, you could always rent a car and drive.”

Drive?

Ma’am, have you looked at a map? Do you know how far New Orleans is from Dallas? Our flight to Italy leaves in six hours.

I do not remember what expression crossed my face, but internally I was somewhere between uncontrollable laughter and complete panic.

Emergency Manager Mode

Years in emergency management have taught me that you are allowed one moment to panic.

Then you solve the problem.

I took a breath, looked around the terminal, and asked myself one question: Who might still be flying when everyone else is not?

Then it came to me.

Southwest.

I grabbed my suitcase and started power-walking across the airport like Wilma Flintstone trying to get the family car moving.

When I reached the Southwest counter, I practically pleaded, “Please tell me you have something going to Dallas.”

The agent looked at the screen and said, “We have one seat.”

One single seat, leaving in less than an hour.

I handed over my credit card so quickly that I am fairly certain I said, “Charge it!”

It was one of the best impulse purchases I have ever made.

Meanwhile, in Shreveport

Just as I began to think everything might work out, my phone rang.

It was Aunt Lynn. Their flight had also been canceled.

This is probably the point where I owe her an apology.

I had used nearly all my emotional energy managing my own travel disaster, so my empathy tank was running on fumes. Instead of offering comfort, I went directly into logistics mode.

“Well, y’all can drive.”

Not my finest moment.

At the time, though, I was simply trying to keep all the pieces moving. Thankfully, Aunt Lynn and Uncle Dan did exactly that. They found an Uber driver willing to take them all the way from Shreveport to Dallas, which is remarkable when you really think about it.

Thank God for Love Field

Sometimes the answer to your prayers does not arrive where you expected it.

Mine arrived at Dallas Love Field.

While storms were disrupting flights into DFW on American Airlines, Southwest Airlines was still moving. I made it to Dallas shortly before the weather shut everything down and climbed into yet another Uber for the trip from Love Field to DFW.

By then, it was becoming clear that this pilgrimage was being unofficially sponsored by Uber.

Airport Lounge O’Clock

When I finally reached DFW, I had arrived at what can only be described as Airport Lounge O’Clock.

I was not interested in shopping, sightseeing, socializing, or making new friends. I wanted a comfortable chair, a little silence, and a Cuba Libre.

The first one disappeared rather quickly.

Not long afterward, Mama texted to say they had arrived. Then came another message: Aunt Lynn and Uncle Dan were there too.

I felt enormous relief, followed almost immediately by guilt. While I had been flying to Dallas, they had spent hours riding across Texas in an Uber.

That realization made Cuba Libre number two—and possibly number three—feel entirely reasonable.

The Storm Was Not Finished With Us

Once everyone had finally made it to DFW, we began to believe the hardest part was behind us.

Then the delay notifications started.

First, the flight was pushed back a little. Then it was pushed again. Every few minutes, another hopeful-looking message arrived, each one moving our departure farther into the evening.

The mood in the airport gradually changed. People stopped smiling, stopped checking their watches, and stopped pretending everything was going to be fine.

Eventually, the storm won.

At approximately 7:30 that evening, we were notified that our flight would not leave that night. Our new departure time was 12:35 the following afternoon.

We had officially lost the first day of our pilgrimage.

The Grand Hyatt That Got Away

This may have been the most personally offensive event of the entire day.

I immediately called the Grand Hyatt located at the airport and found three available rooms. They were convenient, within walking distance, and exactly what we needed.

I had them.

Then someone distracted me. I do not even remember who or why. The call disconnected, and when I called back, the rooms were gone.

Just like that.

At that point, I laughed because there was really nothing else left to do.

Grace for the Night

Eventually, we found rooms at a Marriott outside the airport.

That meant another Uber, another check-in, and another adjustment to the plan.

On paper, it looked as though we had lost something. We had missed a day in Italy, spent money we had not expected to spend, and exhausted ourselves before the pilgrimage had officially begun.

Looking back, however, I think we gained something too.

Somewhere between the canceled flights, surprise expenses, missed connections, long rides, airport cocktails, and family members trying not to lose patience with one another, the pilgrimage had already started.

Not in Rome.

Not in Assisi.

Not beside the tomb of a saint.

It began when each of us decided we were not giving up.

Before we ever set foot in Italy, I was reminded that sometimes the first act of faith is not kneeling in prayer. Sometimes it is simply taking a breath, adjusting the plan, and saying:

“Let’s try again tomorrow.”

Creole Chaos Count

✈️ Flights canceled: 2
🚗 Unexpected Uber rides: 3
🍹 Cuba Libres: Enough
📱 Delay notifications: Too many to count
😂 Family patience tested: Immediately
🙏 Grace received: Exactly when we needed it

🌿 What I’ll Carry Home

Before we entered a basilica, touched the tomb of a saint, or walked through ancient streets, God reminded me of something I have spent years teaching through emergency management: plans are important, but flexibility is essential.

Pilgrimages, like life, rarely unfold exactly as we imagine. The destination may remain the same, but the road can change without warning.

The delays and detours were not interruptions to the pilgrimage. They were the first lesson of it.

Sometimes grace does not remove the chaos. Sometimes it simply gives us the strength, creativity, and people we need to keep moving through it.

✈️ Coming Next

Creole Chaos & Grace — Part Two:
The Crossing—and the Back Row We Claimed for the Rest of Italy

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By Cici

There are seasons for creating… and there are seasons for living.

Over the last few months, I’ve admittedly been quieter than usual here at Bella Creole Life. I’ve looked at my camera roll more than once and thought, I really need to post that.

Then another incredible experience would happen.

Another family gathering.

Another pilgrimage.

Another conversation with an elder.

Another story I didn’t want to forget.

Before I knew it, I had hundreds of photos, pages of notes, voice recordings, and enough stories for months of blogs and podcasts.

The truth is… I’ve been busy living the very life this project was created to celebrate.

Bella Creole Life was never meant to be just another food page or travel blog.

It was born out of a desire to preserve the stories, faith, food, family traditions, and history of Louisiana Creoles before they disappear. Somewhere along the way, I realized I couldn’t just tell those stories from behind a computer screen—I had to keep going out into the world to experience them myself.

And what a season it has been.

This spring took me across Italy on a pilgrimage with my mom, my aunt, my uncle, and our dear friend Mr. John. Together we prayed in Assisi, Loreto, Monte Cassino, Monte Sant’Angelo, San Giovanni Rotondo, Pompeii, Rome, and so many sacred places I had dreamed of visiting for years.

We celebrated Mass at the tombs of saints who have inspired me for decades.

We stood before the humble resting place of Pope Francis.

We attended a General Audience with Pope Leo XIV—the first American pope, and a pope whose Creole ancestry makes that moment even more meaningful to me.

Along the way, I also carried Blessed Father Seelos with me through Italy, sharing his story and inviting others to discover the humble Redemptorist priest whose life continues to inspire so many in Louisiana and beyond.

Back home, the journey didn’t stop.

I attended the beautiful celebration of Our Mother of Perpetual Help with New Orleans’ Filipino community—a reminder that the traditions we cherish as Creoles often echo across cultures. Different languages. Different histories. The same deep roots of faith, family, food, and celebration.

I spent time at St. Joseph Abbey with the Benedictine monks on the Northshore.

Visited the peaceful grounds of St. Helena Catholic Church in Amite.

Then, over the Fourth of July weekend, I flew to Chicago for the Cane River Creoles Family Reunion. There is something incredibly powerful about standing in a room full of people connected by history, by ancestry, and by a shared commitment to making sure those stories continue long after we’re gone.

Those moments reminded me why Bella Creole Life exists.

And yes… somewhere in between all of that, I still have the 9-to-5 that keeps the lights on. Bella Creole Life has always been a labor of love, squeezed into evenings, weekends, airports, and late nights after work. I know many of you understand exactly what that feels like.

One of the greatest blessings during this busy season has been watching my nephews, Ian and Drew, step into this mission with me. Seeing the next generation not only learn about their Creole heritage but become storytellers themselves has been one of the proudest moments of this entire journey. They remind me that preservation isn’t just about looking backward—it’s about equipping those who come next.

And we’re just getting started.

In the coming months, you’ll see all of these stories shared through blogs, reels, podcasts, and photo essays.

You’ll come with us through Italy.

You’ll meet remarkable people whose lives shaped Creole history.

You’ll hear family recipes and family stories.

You’ll explore churches, festivals, cemeteries, and communities that continue to keep our culture alive.

And perhaps the adventure I’m most excited about…

I’m beginning the journey to trace another branch of my family’s story—back to Canada.

Many Louisiana Creole families have roots that extend far beyond Louisiana, and I’ll be documenting my research as I work to establish Canadian citizenship through ancestry. I’ll share the genealogy, historical records, surprises, and lessons I learn along the way in hopes that it encourages others to begin tracing their own family stories.

Because that’s really what Bella Creole Life has always been about.

Not simply preserving the past.

But discovering who we are because of it.

Thank you for staying with me, even when life pulled me away from posting.

Thank you for cheering on Ian and Drew as they carry this mission forward.

Thank you for believing that our stories matter.

There is so much more to come.

We’re just turning the page to the next chapter.

With gratitude,

Cici

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11 Countries That Connect to Louisiana Creole Culture

By Drew Rachal

When most people watch the FIFA World Cup, they think about goals, saves, rivalries, and which country is going to win.

I think about all of that too.

But I also think about something else.

I think about culture.

Every team in the World Cup represents more than a jersey. They represent language, food, music, religion, family, history, and pride.

That is why I wanted to create this Bella Creole Life special feature: Creole Sports Facts With Drew: FIFA World Cup Edition.

This series looks at 11 countries connected to Louisiana Creole culture.

Some of these countries have their own Creole languages and traditions. Others influenced Louisiana Creole culture through African, French, Spanish, Portuguese, Catholic, Caribbean, and food traditions.

The point is simple:

Louisiana Creoles are part of a much bigger global story.

Let’s take the tour.

Haiti: The Creole Powerhouse

Haiti is one of the strongest Creole culture stories in the world.

In Haiti, the national language is Haitian Creole, also called Kreyòl Ayisyen. Nearly everybody in Haiti speaks it. French is also used, especially in formal settings such as education, government, and official business.

That is different from Louisiana, where Louisiana Creole is much less commonly spoken today.

But Haiti and Louisiana still share major connections.

Both cultures were shaped by African and French influences. Both developed French-based Creole languages. Both have strong food, music, faith, and family traditions.

Haitian food includes dishes such as griot, which is seasoned fried pork, and diri ak pwa, or rice and beans.

Louisiana Creole food also uses rice, beans, seafood, seasoning, and bold flavor to tell history through food.

Music is another connection. Haiti has kompa, rara, and mizik rasin. Louisiana Creoles helped shape jazz, zydeco, brass band music, and Creole folk traditions.

Haiti’s featured sports figure is Melchie Dumornay, one of Haiti’s top soccer stars. She represents Haitian pride, talent, and Creole identity on the global stage.

Haiti shows us that Creole culture is not small.

It is powerful.

Curaçao: Small Island, Big Creole Energy

Curaçao may be small, but its culture is huge.

One of the most important parts of Curaçao’s identity is Papiamentu, a Creole language influenced by Portuguese, Spanish, Dutch, African, and Caribbean cultures.

That makes Curaçao a great connection to Louisiana Creole culture.

Louisiana Creole culture also formed through blending. African, French, Spanish, Native American, and Caribbean influences all came together in Louisiana.

Curaçao’s food includes keshi yena, stews, pastechi, seafood, and island flavors.

Religion is mostly Christian, especially Catholic, which connects to Louisiana’s Catholic history.

Music is also important. Curaçao has tumba and tambú, especially during Carnival.

The biggest difference is that Papiamentu is still widely used in Curaçao, while Louisiana Creole is much less common today.

Curaçao’s featured sports figure is Andruw Jones, a Curaçao-born baseball legend.

He may be known for baseball rather than soccer, but this series is called Creole Sports Facts for a reason. Creole culture shows up across all sports.

Curaçao proves that a small island can have a world-class impact.

Cape Verde: Kriolu, Music, and Island Pride

Cape Verde, also called Cabo Verde, is another powerful Creole culture country.

Cape Verdeans speak Kriolu, a Portuguese-based Creole language. Portuguese is the official language, but Kriolu is the language of daily life, family, music, and identity for many people.

That connects to Louisiana Creole culture because both cultures show how African and European influences came together to create something new.

Cape Verdean food is known for cachupa, a slow-cooked stew made with corn, beans, vegetables, and sometimes meat or fish.

That reminds me of Louisiana because Creole food is also built on slow cooking, flavor, family, and history.

Religion in Cape Verde is mostly Christian, especially Catholic, but African and island traditions are also part of the culture.

Music is one of Cape Verde’s strongest traditions. Morna, funaná, and coladeira carry stories of struggle, joy, longing, and pride.

Cape Verde’s featured sports figure is Nani, a Portuguese soccer star with Cape Verdean roots.

Cape Verde shows how Creole identity can travel across oceans and still stay strong.

France: One of Louisiana’s Root Countries

France is one of the major root countries of Louisiana Creole culture.

The French language, Catholic traditions, food techniques, architecture, family names, and place names all helped shape Louisiana.

But Louisiana Creole culture is not just French.

It became Creole because French influence mixed with African, Spanish, Native American, and Caribbean cultures.

That is what makes Creole culture so unique.

France is known for breads, sauces, pastries, stews, and formal cooking traditions. Louisiana Creole food took some French cooking ideas and mixed them with local ingredients, Gulf Coast seafood, African foodways, Caribbean flavor, and Louisiana creativity.

Religion in France is different today because the country is more secular, but Catholic history still shaped French culture and Louisiana Creole traditions.

Music is different too. France has chanson and classical traditions, while Louisiana Creoles helped shape jazz, zydeco, and Creole folk music.

France’s featured sports figure is Lilian Thuram, a French soccer legend born in Guadeloupe. Guadeloupe has French Caribbean Creole culture, which connects France, the Caribbean, sports, and Creole identity.

France gave Louisiana some roots.

Louisiana Creoles turned those roots into something new.

Spain: The Influence People Forget

When people talk about Louisiana Creole culture, they usually mention France first.

But Spain matters too.

Louisiana was under Spanish rule during part of its colonial history. Spanish influence helped shape Louisiana architecture, Catholic traditions, family names, food, and music.

That means Louisiana Creole culture is not only French.

It has Spanish flavor too.

Spain is famous for rice dishes such as paella. Louisiana has jambalaya, red beans and rice, seafood dishes, and Creole meals built around rice and seasoning.

They are not the same foods, but they show how rice, spice, and community meals connect cultures.

Spain is also known for flamenco, guitar, Catholic festivals, and strong family traditions.

Louisiana Creoles have jazz, zydeco, second-line traditions, Catholic roots, and community celebrations.

Spain’s featured sports figure is Ansu Fati, a Spanish international footballer born in Guinea-Bissau, a West African country where Kriyol is widely spoken. His journey from Guinea-Bissau to Spain connects football, migration, West Africa, and the broader Creole-speaking world.

Another important cultural connection is Jelly Roll Morton, a New Orleans Creole jazz pioneer who spoke about the “Spanish tinge” in jazz. His words showed how Spanish influence became part of the sound of New Orleans.

Spain reminds us that Creole culture is a mix.

Sometimes the influence is hidden in the sound, and sometimes it travels through people.

Senegal: West African Roots

Senegal is one of the most important countries to study when talking about African influence in Louisiana Creole culture.

Many African influences in Louisiana came from West Africa, including the Senegambia region.

That influence shows up in food, rhythm, storytelling, spirituality, and community traditions.

Senegal is known for thieboudienne, a rice and fish dish with vegetables and seasoning.

Louisiana Creole culture also has rice dishes, seafood, stews, and meals that bring families together.

Music is a major connection. Senegal has sabar drumming and mbalax music. Louisiana Creole music carries African rhythm, call-and-response, and dance traditions.

Religion is one major difference. Senegal is mostly Muslim, while Louisiana Creoles have historically been strongly Catholic and Christian.

Languages are different too. Senegal has languages such as Wolof and French, while Louisiana Creole is French-based.

Senegal’s featured sports figure is Patrice Evra. Born in Dakar, Senegal, the former Manchester United defender represented the France national team. His mother, Juliette, was from Cape Verde, giving him a direct family connection to a predominantly Creole society shaped by African and Portuguese heritage.

Evra represented France internationally, earned 81 caps, and won multiple domestic trophies during his career.

Senegal reminds us that Creole culture has deep African roots.

Democratic Republic of the Congo: Rhythm and Memory

The Democratic Republic of the Congo connects to Louisiana Creole culture through rhythm, music, dance, food, spirituality, and memory.

When people in Louisiana hear “Congo,” many think about Congo Square in New Orleans.

Congo Square was a place where African and African-descended people gathered, played music, danced, sold goods, and kept cultural traditions alive.

That helped shape New Orleans music and culture.

The Democratic Republic of the Congo has powerful music and dance traditions, including Congolese rumba, soukous, and ndombolo.

Those styles are different from Louisiana Creole music, but they share rhythm, movement, and community energy.

Food in Congo includes cassava, plantains, stews, greens, and regional dishes.

Louisiana Creole food also carries African food traditions through stews, greens, rice, seafood, and seasoning.

Religion in Congo is mostly Christian, with traditional African cultural practices still present in many communities.

The featured sports figure is Yoane Wissa, a French-born forward who represents the Democratic Republic of the Congo internationally. His career reflects the global reach of the French-speaking Congolese diaspora and the growing presence of Congolese talent on football’s world stage.

Congo reminds us that rhythm can carry history.

Côte d’Ivoire: French-Speaking West African Pride

Côte d’Ivoire, also known as Ivory Coast, connects to Louisiana Creole culture through West Africa, French influence, food, music, and pride.

This country is not Creole in the same way Haiti, Curaçao, or Cape Verde are.

But it helps us understand the African and French-speaking worlds that connect to Creole history.

Ivorian food includes attiéké, made from cassava, and kedjenou, a slow-cooked chicken stew.

Louisiana Creole food also uses stews, seasoning, seafood, rice, and community meals.

Music in Côte d’Ivoire includes coupé-décalé and zouglou, styles filled with energy and movement.

Louisiana Creole music has zydeco, jazz, brass bands, and dance traditions that also bring people together.

Religion in Côte d’Ivoire includes Christianity, Islam, and traditional African beliefs. Louisiana Creole culture has historically been strongly Catholic and Christian.

Côte d’Ivoire’s featured sports figure is Didier Drogba, one of the greatest African soccer players. He proudly represented Côte d’Ivoire on the international stage and became a symbol of African excellence, leadership, and national pride.

Louisiana Creole musician Clifton Chenier offers another cultural comparison. Known as the King of Zydeco, he showed how African rhythm, French influence, blues, and Louisiana Creole culture could come together to create a powerful sound.

Côte d’Ivoire shows how African pride and French influence can create culture that moves the world.

Ghana: Food, Rhythm, and Diaspora

Ghana connects to Louisiana Creole culture through the African diaspora, food, rhythm, storytelling, and community.

Ghana has many languages and cultures, including Akan, Twi, Ga, Ewe, and others.

Louisiana Creole culture also formed through many peoples and influences coming together.

Food is one of the strongest connections. Ghana is known for fufu, groundnut soup, palm nut soup, kenkey, fish, and jollof rice.

Louisiana Creole food also has rice dishes, stews, seafood, greens, and meals that bring families together.

Music is another connection. Ghana has highlife, hiplife, Afrobeats, drumming, and dance traditions.

Louisiana Creoles have jazz, zydeco, second-line rhythms, and Creole folk music.

Religion in Ghana includes Christianity, Islam, and traditional African beliefs. Louisiana Creoles have historically had strong Catholic and Christian traditions, with African influence still present in the culture.

One important difference is colonial history. Ghana was shaped by British colonial rule, and English is its official language. Louisiana Creole culture was shaped more strongly by French and Spanish colonial influence.

Ghana’s featured sports figure is Asamoah Gyan, a Ghanaian World Cup legend who represents national pride, leadership, and African football achievement.

Louisiana Creole zydeco musician Terrance Simien provides another meaningful musical comparison. His work helps preserve Louisiana Creole music and carry it to audiences around the world.

Ghana reminds us that food, music, and family can carry history across oceans.

Portugal: A Root of Atlantic Creole Culture

Portugal is another important root country in the global Creole story.

Portuguese influence helped shape Creole cultures around the world, especially in Cape Verde and parts of the Caribbean.

Cape Verdean Kriolu is Portuguese-based. Papiamentu in Curaçao also has strong Portuguese influence.

That means Portugal is not itself a Creole country, but it is connected to Creole cultures that formed across the Atlantic world.

Portuguese food includes seafood, bread, pastries, stews, and dishes such as bacalhau.

Cape Verdean and Caribbean Creole food cultures took Portuguese influence and blended it with African and island traditions.

Portugal is also known for fado music, which carries emotion, memory, longing, and storytelling.

That connects to Creole music because Creole songs also carry history, struggle, pride, and feeling.

Religion in Portugal has historically been strongly Catholic, which connects to Louisiana Creole and Cape Verdean traditions.

Portugal’s featured sports figure is Renato Sanches, a Portuguese soccer player with Cape Verdean family roots.

Portugal reminds us that languages travel.

When they travel, they can become part of new Creole cultures.

Panama: Where Ports Create Culture

Panama is a great country to end with because it connects Central America, the Caribbean, Africa, Europe, and Indigenous cultures.

That sounds a lot like the Creole story.

In places such as Bocas del Toro, Afro-Antillean culture is strong. There is Caribbean-style food, music, language, and community identity. Some communities use Guari Guari, a local English-based Creole language.

Panamanian food includes seafood, coconut, rice and beans, plantains, and stews.

Louisiana Creole food also has seafood, rice, bold seasoning, and African-Caribbean influence.

Panama’s music includes calypso, reggae, soca, salsa, jazz, and tamborito.

Louisiana Creole culture also has jazz, zydeco, second-line rhythms, and music made for movement.

Religion in Panama is mostly Christian, especially Catholic, which connects to Louisiana’s Catholic history.

The difference is that Panama is mostly Spanish-speaking, while Louisiana Creole culture is French-based and rooted in Louisiana history.

Panama’s featured sports figure is Adalberto “Coco” Carrasquilla, a creative midfielder for the Panama national team. His skill, movement, and international career represent modern Panamanian football pride and the way culture travels through ports, migration, people, and sports.

Panamanian jazz pianist and bandleader Luis Russell offers another important cultural connection. He became part of the New Orleans jazz story, linking Panama’s port culture and musical traditions to Louisiana.

Panama proves that Creole-style culture can travel through ports, music, food, and people.

Final Thoughts

The World Cup is more than a tournament.

It is a map of cultures.

When I watch soccer, I do not just see countries competing.

I see languages, foods, music, religions, histories, and family stories.

That is what makes the Creole World Cup Tour so special.

Haiti, Curaçao, Cape Verde, France, Spain, Senegal, the Democratic Republic of the Congo, Côte d’Ivoire, Ghana, Portugal, and Panama all help tell part of the story.

Some are Creole-language cultures. Some are root countries. Some represent African diaspora connections. Others reflect Caribbean and port-city connections.

But all of them help us understand one big idea:

Louisiana Creoles are part of a much larger global Creole story.

So, the next time you watch the World Cup, do not just look at the scoreboard.

Look at the culture behind the jersey.

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St. Joseph’s Altars & Masking Mardi Gras Indians

Every year on March 19th, something special happens in New Orleans.

It is a day where faith, culture, and community come together in ways that feel both sacred and celebratory. A day where tables overflow with food, streets come alive with movement and color, and traditions passed down through generations are brought forward once again.

But I’ll be honest.

This was not something I grew up with.

A Tradition I Found Later in Life

Growing up in North Louisiana, my Creole experience was rooted in church, family, and community, but the traditions of St. Joseph’s Day altars and Masking Mardi Gras Indians on St. Joseph’s Night were not part of my childhood.

It wasn’t until I moved to New Orleans that I encountered these traditions for the first time.

And when I did, something in me connected immediately.

Not because they were familiar, but because they felt like they belonged to me anyway.

The Beauty of St. Joseph’s Altars

St. Joseph’s Day is celebrated on March 19th in honor of St. Joseph, the patron saint of fathers, families, and workers.

The tradition of the altars was brought to Louisiana by Sicilian immigrants in the late 1800s, who prayed to St. Joseph during a devastating drought in Sicily. When their prayers were answered, they promised to honor him with elaborate altars filled with food and offerings.

That promise lives on today.

The altars are breathtaking.

Tables layered with, fresh breads and baked goods, fruits and vegetables, cookies shaped into religious symbols, intricate displays of devotion and gratitude.

But what makes them truly special is not just their beauty.

It’s the spirit behind them.

These altars are built to feed the community, to welcome strangers, and to give thanks. Homes and churches open their doors, inviting people in to share in the abundance.

It is faith in action.

Learning the Tradition Through Friendship

I didn’t find this tradition on my own.

It was shared with me.

My dear friend Opal Joyner introduced me to St. Joseph’s altars years ago. She took me from church to church, showing me the beauty of each altar, explaining the meaning behind the symbols, and eventually bringing me into private homes where families opened their doors to share their altars with others.

I remember being struck by how personal it felt.

How intentional.

How full of love.

And yes, she also taught me one of the more playful traditions of the altars.

Unmarried women could take a lemon from the altar, without being seen, and ask St. Joseph to help them find a husband.

Let’s just say…

I still have my lemons.

They’re over 15 years old now, completely mummified, and I’m still waiting on St. Joseph to come through. 😂

But even that small tradition speaks to something bigger:

Hope. Faith. Possibility.

St. Joseph’s Night & the Masking Mardi Gras Indians

As the sun sets on March 19th, another tradition comes alive.

Masking Mardi Gras Indians take to the streets.

This is not a performance.

This is culture in motion.

Dressed in incredibly elaborate, hand-sewn suits adorned with beads, feathers, and intricate designs, members of different tribes gather, chant, dance, and move through neighborhoods.

It is deeply rooted in African and Native American traditions, reflecting histories of resistance, resilience, and community.

The energy is electric.

The streets fill with, drum beats, chants, call-and-response songs, flashes of light illuminating suits in the night

It feels sacred.

It feels ancestral.

It feels alive.

A Culture That Lives at the Intersection

What struck me most as I experienced these traditions was how they came from different cultural roots, yet existed side by side. Sicilian Catholic devotion, African spiritual traditions, Native American influences.

And somehow, in New Orleans, they blended into something unique..

And that’s when it clicked for me.

As a Creole woman, with French, Spanish, African, Native, Italian, and Irish ancestry flowing through my veins, this was my culture too.

Not one piece.

All of it.

Creole culture has never been about fitting into one box.

It has always been about connection, blending, and becoming.

Carrying the Tradition Forward

Even now, years later, I still honor this tradition.

My friend Opal passed away in 2010, but every year on St. Joseph’s Day, I think of her.

And I bring a fava bean to her resting place.

In Sicilian tradition, fava beans are considered symbols of good luck, abundance, and survival, known for growing even in poor conditions.

To me, that symbolism runs deep.

Because that is who we are as a people.

We endure.
We adapt.
We grow, even in difficult conditions.

And we carry forward the traditions that were shared with us.

Why This Matters

St. Joseph’s Day and St. Joseph’s Night are more than traditions.

They are reminders.

That culture is meant to be shared.
That faith is meant to be lived.
That community is meant to be experienced.

And that we are not bound by, color, class, or circumstance.

We are connected by something deeper.

From Me to You ❤️

If you’ve never experienced a St. Joseph’s altar or seen the Mardi Gras Indians on St. Joseph’s Night, I encourage you to go.

Go with an open heart.

Go ready to learn.

Go ready to connect.

Because sometimes the traditions we didn’t grow up with…
are still part of who we are.

And sometimes all it takes is one person, like Opal was for me, to open that door.

A Moment to Reflect

What tradition have you discovered later in life that made you feel more connected to who you are?

Until next time, cousin,

take care of yourself, take care of your people, and keep living the Bella Creole Life.

With love and intention,

Cici

2026 St. Joseph Altars – Archdiocese of New Orleans – New Orleans, LA

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If there’s one thing Creole people know how to do, it’s have a good time. Whether it’s music, dancing, festivals, or simply gathering with friends and family, fun is not just recreation—it’s a way of strengthening bonds, preserving culture, and keeping joy at the heart of our lives.

Across Louisiana—and in Creole communities far beyond—you’ll find us performing on stage, presenting our art, sharing our stories, or just showing up to support one another. We celebrate with music, food, and fellowship, and we take every opportunity to “pass a good time” together.

How We Celebrate

Festivals & Fairs – From the Cane River Zydeco Festival to Creole Heritage Day, community gatherings are where you’ll hear the music, taste the food, and see the art that defines us.
Music & Dance – Zydeco and La-La music, second-line parades, and traditional Creole waltzes keep our feet moving and our spirits high.
Cultural Showcases – Art exhibits, storytelling events, and history presentations give our community a stage to share our talents and traditions.
Everyday Gatherings – Church fairs, family reunions, and neighborhood porch parties remind us that fun doesn’t have to be fancy—it just has to be shared.

Fun as Cultural Connection

Fun isn’t just about entertainment—it’s about connection. Every song, every dance, every shared laugh keeps our culture alive. These moments create memories that our children and grandchildren will carry, just as we’ve carried the ones passed down to us.

Explore More: Visit the Fun page to find Creole events, festivals, and performances near you. Share your photos, submit event details, or write a guest blog post about a celebration in your community so we can help spread the word.

From Me to You ❤️

Some of my happiest memories aren’t from big, planned events—they’re from sitting on a porch while someone strummed a guitar, dancing in the yard to a fiddle tune, or laughing with my cousins under the lights of a church fair. Those moments taught me that “fun” isn’t just about what you do—it’s about who you’re with.

Growing up, I watched how every gathering—big or small—was infused with the warmth of our culture. I saw elders teaching the younger ones how to dance the two-step, how to clap along in time, how to sing the old songs. I saw neighbors become family, and family become the heart of the celebration.

I want the Bella Creole Life Fun page to be a place where that spirit shines. A place to discover where we’re gathering, to remember the events that shaped us, and to inspire the next one. Whether you’re hosting a festival, playing music, selling art, or simply showing up to cheer someone on—you’re part of what makes our culture vibrant and alive.

So, let’s keep dancing, keep laughing, and keep passing a good time—together.

With love,
Christie

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